Not long ago, someone asked me:
“If my back pain is emotional… then who, exactly, is angry?”
It’s a great question.
Because for most people, it’s not the rational adult part of you that’s upset.
It’s the part that never got to grow up.
Pain as Protest
We’re taught to see pain as purely physical. But centuries of psychology—and decades of neuroscience—tell us otherwise: emotion and physiology are deeply entangled.
Dr. John Sarno called it Tension Myoneural Syndrome—a theory that emotional pressure can restrict blood flow to muscles and nerves, producing real, burning pain.
Not imagined. Not malingering.
A nervous system trying to say:
“Something’s wrong. Please listen.”
What the Brain Says
Modern neuroscience backs this up.
Your anterior insula—one of the brain’s key pain hubs—lights up during physical injury, emotional distress, even heartbreak.
Same with the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC). It doesn’t just register pain—it interprets it. Decides if it’s dangerous. Decides if it matters.
And when those regions get sensitized by stress—grief, rage, fear—the nervous system begins treating even harmless signals from the back as threats.
That’s how emotional tension turns into physical pain.
When the Body Becomes the Voice
So you don’t rage at your parents. You don’t snap at your partner. You don’t collapse at your desk.
But your back does.
Because the child inside you still wants to be heard.
It flares when your mother visits.
Spasms after a quiet but devastating letdown.
Numbs out after a “win” that feels hollow.
Your body becomes the only place that will speak the truth.
Healing Begins When You Listen
Healing doesn’t start with new stretches or better posture.
It starts by asking:
“What is my body trying to tell me?”
When I guide someone to this realization, it’s not therapy. It’s clarity.
And usually, a thought surfaces:
“I’m tired of always doing the right thing.”
“Nobody ever checks if I’m okay.”
“Maybe I just want to quit.”
These aren’t escape plans.
They’re truths that finally want to be seen.
And once they are—once they’re felt and acknowledged—the body can stop using pain as a shield.
Final Thought
Most chronic back pain isn’t mechanical.
It’s emotional.
Letting your inner child speak might not make logical sense at first. But ironically, it often makes the pain disappear faster than any stretch or surgery ever could.
That might sound like weakness, but it’s actually deep wisdom.
Because sometimes the smallest voice—the one you buried long ago—is the only one that can finally set you free.
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Most people arrive at The Makepeace Method after months or years of chasing physical fixes — stretches, adjustments, injections, mattresses, supplements, MRIs. They’ve tried everything except the one thing that actually changes chronic pain: Understanding what the pain is.
How Robert Beat His Back Pain After a Lifetime of Pressure
Robert’s pain arrived after decades of pushing himself at work. His scans showed degeneration, but so do most for people his age. When he finally slowed down and addressed the stress behind his drive, the pain eased—not through treatment, but through understanding.
The Painkiller That Killed the Truth
In 1996, Purdue Pharma introduced a drug it described as a breakthrough in pain management. OxyContin was marketed as modern, safe, and compassionate—a scientific solution to human suffering. What followed is now one of the worst public health disasters in history. More than a quarter million people in North America have died from prescription opioid overdoses.
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